If you want a Cancer man to fall in love with you، it's vital to establish a strong emotional connection with him right from the start. The following five clever tips show you exactly how!
1) ACT A BIT HELPLESS
The number one tip for attracting a Cancer man is to act a little bit helpless. He's likely to respond much more positively if he thinks you're in need of some tender loving care. So although in reality you may well be quite tough and capable، make a point of showing him your more vulnerable side. Incredibly soft-hearted by nature، the Cancer man can't resist a sob story and will want to look after you in nay way that he can. With his high level of sensitivity، he's closely in touch with his feminine side and not normally a particularly macho type of guy. Cancerians do، however، have strongly developed protective instincts and will fight bravely to help the weak and defenceless. So if you like the idea of being rescued by your very own knight in shining armor، don't hesitate to ask for his assistance.
2) ASK HIM ABOUT HIS ROOTS
A reliable way of attracting a Cancer man's interest is to talk to him about your family background، and in turn to ask him to tell you about his. Family is very important to this guy and often tends to be his main priority in life، taking precedence even over his job or career. Enquiring about his childhood roots، such as where he was born، whether or not he has brothers and sisters، or where his family spent their vacations، is an excellent tactic for getting to know the Cancer man. Even better، and a sure way to make him fall in love with you، is to take an active interest in his mother. Cancer men usually have a very close relationship with their mother، and securing her approval is a must-have for any long-term relationship. So if you're serious about seducing this guy، you'd better start making a friend of this woman now!
3) CONVINCE HIM YOU'RE A HOMEBODY
The average Cancer man's ideal vision of the future centers on a nice house and garden of his own، filled with adorable children and pets. A dedicated homebody at heart، he's unlikely to consider a long-term relationship with someone who isn't the nesting type too. For this reason، if you want this guy to fall in love with you، it's important to give the impression that you're highly domesticated and that you love children and animals. Most Cancerian men will eventually want to become fathers، so if you detest kids it could prove a big sticking point with this man. Talking to him about your current home، as well as where you aspire to live in the future، will encourage him to open up to you about his own hopes and dreams and create an emotional bond on which you can begin to build.
4) BE KIND AND CARING
Don't make the mistake، however، of coming on too strong or asking too many probing questions at first. The male Crab is a shy and reserved creature، easily scared off by predatory types intent on gobbling him up. He's reluctant to divulge too much about himself until he's ready to accept you into his inner circle، and will only clam up if you dig too deep too soon. To gain a Cancerian's trust، it's vital to show yourself as kind، caring and above all an excellent listener. Because he has a strong emotional nature and is easily hurt، he needs a partner who will sympathize with his mood swings (of which he has many!) and to whom he can express his feelings without being judged. Avoid criticizing him، arguing with him or chiding him to 'pull himself together' if you want to win a Cancer man's heart.
5) APPEAL TO HIS TRADITIONAL VALUES
You'll attract a Cancerian more easily if you make him believe that، just like him، you have a traditional approach to love. With his old-fashioned values، this man is looking for a true soul mate with whom he can settle down happily ever after، not just a one night stand. Because he needs a partner who will be loyal and faithful، he's unlikely to fall in love with you if he suspects you're the kind of person who plays the field. The Cancer man is attracted more by modesty and 'niceness' than any amount of raunchy good looks. Renowned for his sense of romance، he loves candlelit dinners in intimate surroundings، so when the moment is right to seduce him، don't be afraid to ask him over to your place rather than wait for an invitation from him. Cancerian guys sometimes need a bit of a prod to get a new relationship underway.